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When Conformity Costs You Your Identity: Breaking Free from Others’ Expectations

When Conformity Costs You Your Identity: Breaking Free from Others’ Expectations

by Christine Hoy | Jun 24, 2025 | Uncategorized

Choosing to homeschool in the early 1990s set me apart in ways I never anticipated. In my home state of Michigan, homeschooling hovered in a legal gray area, making my decision both unconventional and somewhat rebellious. What began as a heartfelt conviction about...
The Kitchen Control Freak: What My Dishwasher Drama Taught Me About Control

The Kitchen Control Freak: What My Dishwasher Drama Taught Me About Control

by Christine Hoy | Jun 17, 2025 | Uncategorized

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where someone’s kindness triggered an unexpected emotional response? Where their genuine attempt to help felt more like an invasion than a blessing? When Help Feels Like Chaos Picture this: dear friends from South...
When God Interrupts Your Plans: Finding Peace in Uncertainty

When God Interrupts Your Plans: Finding Peace in Uncertainty

by Christine Hoy | Jun 10, 2025 | Uncategorized

Have you ever had your life perfectly mapped out, only to watch it unravel before your eyes? Those carefully constructed plans, meticulously organized schedules, and well-intentioned dreams—suddenly suspended in midair while God whispers, “Not yet, my child. I...
When Control Becomes an Idol: Learning to Let Go

When Control Becomes an Idol: Learning to Let Go

by Christine Hoy | Jun 3, 2025 | Uncategorized

A couple of years ago, I was sitting on a plane waiting to take off, intently staring at the Ring doorbell app on my phone, watching contractors carry in sheets of drywall. The control freak in me was a little anxious. What if they scuff the walls? What if that...
Finding Your True Identity: Beyond the Approval of Others

Finding Your True Identity: Beyond the Approval of Others

by Christine Hoy | May 13, 2025 | Uncategorized

The People-Pleasing Trap Have you ever found yourself bending over backward to gain approval from people you wanted to like and admire you? I have. For years, I walked a tightrope, carefully navigating relationships with those who, in an ideal world, would have...
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